“The single most important practice in Stoic philosophy is differentiating between what we can change and what we can’t.”
“If we can focus on making clear what parts of our day are within our control and what parts are not, we will not only be happier, we will have a distinct advantage over other people who fail to realize they are fighting an unwinnable battle.”
“It may take some hard work. But the more you say no to the things that don’t matter, the more you can say yes to the things that do.”
“Control your perceptions. Direct your actions properly. Willingly accept what’s outside your control.”
“According to the Stoics, the circle of control contains just one thing: YOUR MIND.”
“If you hold a perpetually negative outlook, soon enough everything you encounter will seem negative. Close it off and you’ll become closed-minded. Color it with the wrong thoughts and your life will be dyed the same.”
“It’s been said that the definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result. Yet that’s exactly what most people do.”
“No need to be too hard on yourself. Hold yourself to a higher standard but not an impossible one. And forgive yourself if and when you slip up.”
“You can always get up after you fall, but remember, what has been said can never be unsaid. Especially cruel and hurtful things.”
“The reality is that a similar sword hangs over all of us—life can be taken from us at any moment. And that threat can send us in one of two directions: we can fear and dread it, or we can use it to motivate us.”
“You can take the bite out of any tough situation by bringing a calm mind to it. By considering it and meditating on it in advance.”
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