Educated: A Memoir

Educated: A Memoir

by Tara Westover
4.47 (1.6M)  •  2018

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Bookfave Note

Fantastic book for changing your whiny American perspective. Reading Educated will leave you extremely grateful for the following and more: medical care, dental care, food that’s not canned, school, your teachers, clothes that fit, seatbelts, your siblings if they’re remotely nice, and every book that is not the Bible or the Book of Mormon.

4 Minute Summary

When Tara Westover started college at age seventeen, she was well aware of her father’s opinion: “College is extra school for people too dumb to learn the first time around.” Except for Tara there had been no “first time around.” She was not “homeschooled,” as her family now claims, via a lawyer, in protest of the memoir. Her family spent all its time and all its meager resources planning for the end of the world: canning food, hoarding fuel, preparing “head for the hills” bags for each of the seven children (Tara is the youngest) and accumulating weapons. Tara became highly educated in some practical matters that many of us miss out on: welding, roofing, herbal remedies, midwifery. She learned to read from an older sibling but her access to books was severely limited. She remarks, of her first semester in college, “. . .I struggled in English. My teacher said I had a knack for writing but that my language was oddly formal and stilted. I didn’t tell her that I’d learned to read and write by reading only the Bible, the Book of Mormon, and speeches by Joseph Smith and Brigham Young.” She grew up deeply connected to the natural world, to the rhythm of the mountains around her. But she also lived with a startling lack of medical and dental care, without knowledge of basic hygiene, with little to no ability to interact with those outside the Mormon faith. Concussions, third degree burns, high fevers, earaches, even brain injuries were treated with prayer and herbs. All events, no matter how devastating, were considered gifts from the Lord.

The first-time author describes her childhood with an unflinching eye that neither whitewashes nor indulges in self-pity. The crazy survivalist parents are also highly intelligent, loving, skilled in many areas. The violent older brother who routinely shoves Tara’s head in the toilet is also the closest of her siblings, an ally who stands up to their father on Tara’s behalf. The misogynistic, suffocating religion also serves as a refuge in which Tara feels safe. For a time.

As harrowing as Tara Westover’s childhood was, the transition from it is almost more violent. To enter the world of the educated—to become educated herself—she must suffer countless moments of confusion and discomfort over never having heard of things like the Holocaust or slavery or the Civil Rights Movement. To enter the world of the educated she must separate from her family, physically and psychologically. Her father, after praying about Tara’s decision to go to school, relates the Lord’s opinion: “You have cast aside His blessings to whore after man’s knowledge. His wrath is stirred against you. It will not be long in coming.” Once Tara’s horizon widens, she is unable to narrow it again in order to regain membership in her own family: “I had come to believe that the ability to evaluate many ideas, many histories, many points of view, was at the heart of what it means to self-create.” Finally, she must confront her parents. However, Westover writes, “In families like mine, there is no crime worse than telling the truth.”

Educated is almost three decades’ worth of truth: elegantly, honestly presented in what, ironically, will be an education of sorts for many a reader.

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Tara Westover

Tara Westover is an American historian and memoirist. She holds a PhD in intellectual history from Trinity College, Cambridge. Westover was named one of Time’s 100 Most Influential People. In 2019, she was the Rosenthal Writer in Residence at Harvard, and in 2023, she received the National Humanities Medal from President Biden.

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