“Intolerance of others’ views (no matter how ignorant or incoherent they may be) is not simply wrong; in a world where there is no right or wrong, it is worse: it is a sign you are embarrassingly unsophisticated or, possibly, dangerous.”
“To stand up straight with your shoulders back is to accept the terrible responsibility of life, with eyes wide open.”
“There is very little difference between the capacity for mayhem and destruction, integrated, and strength of character. This is one of the most difficult lessons of life.”
“Attend carefully to your posture. Quit drooping and hunching around. Speak your mind. Put your desires forward, as if you had a right to them— at least the same right as others. Walk tall and gaze forthrightly ahead. Dare to be dangerous.”
“Order is not enough. You can’t just be stable, and secure, and unchanging, because there are still vital and important new things to be learned.”
“Perhaps you are overvaluing what you don’t have and undervaluing what you do.”
“What you aim at determines what you see.”
“Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.”
“Every bit of learning is a little death. Every bit of new information challenges a previous conception, forcing it to dissolve into chaos before it can be reborn as something better. Sometimes such deaths virtually destroy us.”
“The better ambitions have to do with the development of character and ability, rather than status and power. Status you can lose. You carry character with you wherever you go, and it allows you to prevail against adversity.”
“Listen, to yourself and to those with whom you are speaking. Your wisdom then consists not of the knowledge you already have, but the continual search for knowledge, which is the highest form of wisdom.”
“Always place your becoming above your current being. That means it is necessary to recognize and accept your insufficiency, so that it can be continually rectified. That’s painful, certainly—but it’s a good deal.”
“Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping.”
“It is my firm belief that the best way to fix the world—a handyman’s dream, if ever there was one—is to fix yourself.”
Dr. Jordan B. Peterson is an author, psychologist, and Professor Emeritus at the University of Toronto. His podcast frequently ranks highly in the Education category, and his lectures and conversations on YouTube have garnered millions of views and plays.
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