“How we decide to respond to our fears, that is the person we become. I decided to be funny.”
“Never argue with a fool, because from a distance, people can’t tell who’s who.”
“If you cultivate the fantasy that your marriage will be forever joyful and effortless, then reality is going to pay you back in equal proportion to your delusion.”
“Life is like school, with one key difference—in school you get the lesson, and then you take the test. But in life, you get the test, and it’s your job to take the lesson.”
“Choosing the city you live in is as important as choosing your life partner.”
“It’s respectable to lose to the universe. It’s a tragedy to lose to yourself.”
“The capacity to adjust and improvise is arguably the single most critical human ability.”
“The human mind is a storytelling machine. The creation of narrative is hard-wired into us. What we call “memory” and “imagination” are essentially just stories that we program into our minds as a survival mechanism to protect ourselves and to help us thrive.”
“To place the responsibility for your happiness on anybody other than yourself is a recipe for misery.”
“But bravery does not mean the absence of fear. Bravery is learning to continue forward even when you’re terrified.”
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