“How can we summon a moment of lift for human beings—and especially for women? Because when you lift up women, you lift up humanity.”
“Being a feminist means believing that every woman should be able to use her voice and pursue her potential, and that women and men should all work together to take down the barriers and end the biases that still hold women back.”
“If you want to lift up humanity, empower women. It is the most comprehensive, pervasive, high-leverage investment you can make in human beings.”
“Poverty is not being able to protect your family. Poverty is not being able to save your children when mothers with more money could. And because the strongest instinct of a mother is to protect her children, poverty is the most disempowering force on earth.”
“‘Their cup is not empty; you can’t just pour your ideas into it. Their cup is already full, so you have to understand what is in their cup.’ If you don’t understand the meaning and beliefs behind a community’s practices, you won’t present your idea in the context of their values and concerns, and people won’t hear you.”
“That is why we women have to lift each other up—not to replace men at the top of the hierarchy, but to become partners with men in ending hierarchy.”
“When people can’t agree, it’s often because there is no empathy, no sense of shared experience. If you feel what others feel, you’re more likely to see what they see. Then you can understand one another. Then you can move to the honest and respectful exchange of ideas that is the mark of a successful partnership. That’s the source of progress.”
“Every society says its outsiders are the problem. But the outsiders are not the problem; the urge to create outsiders is the problem. Overcoming that urge is our greatest challenge and our greatest promise.”
“The supreme goal for humanity is not equality but connection. People can be equal but still be isolated—not feeling the bonds that tie them together. Equality without connection misses the whole point.”
“The cultural limits against women will never change unless we challenge them; we can’t challenge them without courage, and we can’t summon all our courage without each other.”
National Public Radio: 'The Moment Of Lift' Is More Of A Whisper Than A Call To Action
Los Angeles Times: Review: Melinda Gates’ ‘Moment of Lift’ calls to break barriers that hold women back