“Finally, I was seeing the beauty of being different and the thrill of being unique. For the first time in maybe forever, I was proud of who I was, and I was realizing that the part of me that is different and is unique really is the most beautiful part of my story.”
“But there’s no direct path to being truly known if you don’t allow yourself to be fully seen.”
“And whether it’s shame, uncertainty, or a sense of unworthiness, we’ll remember that, as powerful as those emotions are, we are not powerless to them.”
“The problem with walls is that they shield you from feelings of pain and shame, maybe, but also goodness, also beauty.”
“There are, within each of our histories, inevitable cracks that need filling, fractures that need mending. How we begin to make repairs in the aftermath is up to us. We can fill the crevices with the things that may seem easiest at first glance—the rubble, the ash, the stuff of life that ends up doing us more harm than good. Or we can dig deeper, past the surface, till we find the specks of gold hidden in the dust.”
“Empathy is recognizing the burden someone is bearing, extending grace and understanding, and being present in it with them, knowing something of the load they’re carrying.”
“I’ve learned that when we’re not feeding our souls with grace and truth, they feed themselves with all sorts of ugly interruptions.”
“It’s all any of us want—to be valued for who we really are. Not to be misunderstood or misconstrued or put up on a pedestal, but known by the virtues and qualities that define us.”
“Some of us see the world the way it was taught to us. Others grow up running from what was modeled for them. Either way, every day, every minute, we view the world through a lens of our own making: beliefs we pick up from uncertain or painful experiences, ways the world showed us how to perceive ourselves through its eyes instead of our own.”
“When you can stand fully in your story, you gain this craving for more—more truth, more of others willing to share that we are proudly in progress. More breaking down of fragile walls. More person to person.”
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