“To gain a true understanding of human experience, we must understand both our conscious and our unconscious selves, and how they interact.”
“Conscious thought is a great aid in designing a car or deciphering the mathematical laws of nature, but for avoiding snake bites or cars that swerve into your path or people who may mean to harm you, only the speed and efficiency of the unconscious can save you.”
“Research suggests that when it comes to understanding our feelings, we humans have an odd mix of low ability and high confidence.”
“Though you are unaware of it, when you run cool wine over your tongue, you don’t just taste its chemical composition; you also taste its price.”
“According to the laws of chance, if you look around enough, you are bound to find something interesting.”
“We fill in blanks and make guesses, but the truth about us is far more complex and subtle than that which can be understood as the straightforward calculation of conscious and rational minds.”
“Evolution has provided us with an unconscious mind because our unconscious is what allows us to survive in a world requiring such massive information intake and processing.”
“Scientists attach great importance to the human capacity for spoken language. But we also have a parallel track of nonverbal communication, and those messages may reveal more than our carefully chosen words and sometimes be at odds with them.”
“We like to think we judge people as individuals, and at times we consciously try very hard to evaluate others on the basis of their unique characteristics. We often succeed. But if we don’t know a person well, our minds can turn to his or her social category for the answers.”
“Believing in what you desire to be true and then seeking evidence to justify it doesn’t seem to be the best approach to everyday decisions.”
“The fact that we assess information in a biased manner and are unaware we are doing so can be a real stumbling block in negotiations, even if both sides sincerely seek a fair settlement.”
“Unlike phenomena in physics, in life, events can often obey one theory or another, and what actually happens can depend largely upon which theory we choose to believe. It is a gift of the human mind to be extraordinarily open to accepting the theory of ourselves that pushes us in the direction of survival, and even happiness.”