“The older generation maintained a nearly zero-tolerance prohibition on all physical contact. No hugs, no kisses, no pats. Now and then, maybe a light touching of cheeks...on special occasions.”
“Oh how she loved my brother and me. Obsessively, she once confessed to an interviewer. Well, Mummy…vice versa.”
“Pa and William could never be on the same flight together, because there must be no chance of the first and second in line to the throne being wiped out. But no one gave a damn whom I traveled with; the Spare could always be spared.”
“The Heir and the Spare—there was no judgment about it, but also no ambiguity. I was the shadow, the support, the Plan B. I was brought into the world in case something happened to Willy. I was summoned to provide backup, distraction, diversion and, if necessary, a spare part.”
“It wasn’t that she felt no emotions. On the contrary, I always thought that Granny experienced all the normal human emotions. She just knew better than the rest of us mortals how to control them.”
“Being royal, it turned out, wasn’t all that far from being onstage. Acting was acting, no matter the context.”
“He spoke to me with the quality one often encounters in truly wise people—forgiveness. He assured me that people do stupid things, say stupid things, but it doesn’t need to be their intrinsic nature.”
“He was, I realize now, one of the most truthful people I’ve ever known, and he knew a secret about truth that many people are unwilling to accept: it’s usually painful. He wanted me to believe in myself, but that belief could never be based on false promises or fake compliments. The royal road to mastery was paved with facts.”
“I’d heard jokes about the links between royal misbehavior and centuries of inbreeding, but it was then that I realized: Lack of genetic diversity was nothing compared to press gaslighting.”
“In this mixed-up world, this pain-filled life, we’d done it. We’d managed to find each other.”
“I love my Mother Country, and I love my family, and I always will. I just wish, at the second-darkest moment of my life, they’d both been there for me. And I believe they’ll look back one day and wish they had too.”
“We had secrets. Special relationship, that’s what they said about us, and now I couldn’t stop thinking about the specialness that would no longer be. The visits that wouldn’t take place.”
“Maybe money sits at the heart of every controversy about monarchy. Britain has long had trouble making up its mind. Many support the Crown, but many also feel anxious about the cost. That anxiety is increased by the fact that the cost is unknowable.”
The Guardian: Spare by Prince Harry review – a flawed attempt to reclaim the narrative
The New York Times: Prince Harry Learns to Cry, and Takes No Prisoners, in ‘Spare’
The Washington Post: The verdict on Prince Harry’s book: Juicy, humorous, resentful and sad
The Guardian: Spare by Prince Harry review – dry your eyes, mate
The Times: Prince Harry’s Spare review — a 400-page therapy session for mystic Harry
The Wall Street Journal: ‘Spare’ Review: Titled and Entitled
The Guardian: Spare by Prince Harry review – magical thinking in Montecito
The Independent: Spare by Prince Harry: A chaotic but stylish memoir that sets fire to the royal family
TIME: Spare Is Surprisingly Well Written—Despite the Drama Around It
BBC: Spare review: The weirdest book ever written by a royal