“We were playing a game against an unknown and unforgiving opponent. The stakes were terrible—play well or die—but we didn’t even know the ground rules.”
“I don’t pray to God for forgiveness or favors, I only pray to be closer to Him, and when I pray, I fill my heart with love. When I pray this way, I know that God is love. When I feel that love, I remember that we don’t need angels or a heaven, because we are a part of God already.”
“I suddenly understood that in this awful place, too much certainty could kill us; ordinary civilized thinking could cost us our lives. I vowed to myself that I would never pretend to understand these mountains. I would never get trapped by my own expectations.”
“We had allowed ourselves to believe that we had passed the point of danger, but now we saw that we would never be safe in this place. The mountain could kill us in so many ways. What tortured me most was the capriciousness of death.”
“The Andes had done so much to crush us, and each of us knew he was clinging to life by a thread. But we hadn’t surrendered to primitive instincts of self-survival. We were still fighting together, as a team. Our bodies were weakening, but our humanity survived. We hadn’t let the mountains steal away our souls.”
“Death has an opposite, but the opposite is not mere living. It is not courage or faith or human will. The opposite of death is love. How had I missed that? How does anyone miss that? Love is our only weapon. Only love can turn mere life into a miracle, and draw precious meaning from suffering and fear.”
“My duty is to fill my time on earth with as much life as possible, to become a little more human every day, and to understand that we only become human when we love.”
“Each of us realized, with a clarity that is hard to describe, that the only crucial thing in life is the chance to love and be loved.”
“After all these years, this is still the best advice I can give you: Savor your existence. Live every moment. Do not waste a breath.”
Nando Parrado is a motivational speaker, businessman, author, and survivor of the infamous 1972 Andes plane crash. Born on December 9, 1949, in Montevideo, Uruguay, Parrado was a 22-year-old rugby player for the Old Christians Club when the tragic crash occurred. Parrado’s memoir, co-authored with Vince Rause, provides a detailed account of the crash and survival.