“But butts can be hard to see clearly. The fact that they are on our backside means they are somewhat alien to us, even as they are perfectly visible to others. To see your butt, you need the cocoon of mirrors of a dressing room, the cumbersome triangulation of a hand mirror in a bedroom, or an awkwardly held.”
“Just as we crave sweetness because sugar sustains us, the partygoers seem to suggest that we desire big butts because they are good for us and help us survive. It is somehow natural, and in our biological best interests, to be turned on by prominent butts.”
“Prum believes that animals may come to adopt certain aesthetic characteristics not because those traits are adaptive but simply because they are beautiful. This may be because of a sensory bias in the brain—a neurological feature that just prefers shiny things over nonshiny things—or a preference for novelty.”
“To suggest that fashion is a cycle divorced from context is to suggest it exists outside of history. It is to suppose that somehow choosing what clothes you put on every day has nothing to do with the politics, science, or ideas about bodies that swirl around us all.”
“Garment makers are rarely in the business of making clothes that will work for actual people; instead, they cater to a fantasy of who the customer hopes to be.”
“Until that point, most Americans associated the concept of “the gym” with bodybuilding, an almost entirely male subculture that was considered deviant, the progeny of circus acts and freak shows.”
“This was a history and experience that the white people buying up to 70 percent of hip-hop records weren’t typically a part of.”
“A close examination of the parts of ourselves that can feel unbearable—whether body parts, emotions, or desires—can be transformative. By growing curious about the sources of shame and by putting that shame in context, we don’t excuse ourselves, or even get beyond it. Instead, we turn toward rather than away, a gesture that allows for new possibilities and knowledge.”
“But a butt will, for the most part, always remain what it is. As the human mind tries to hammer a body into submission—tries to create meaning, tries to change its shape and appearance, tries to make it something it is not and cannot be—the human body stubbornly refuses to oblige.”
“My body does look a bit like my mom’s, with its big butt and wide hips. And sometimes, when I’m standing there in my underwear, before I’ve pulled on pants or stepped into the world, my butt doesn’t feel like a problem or a blessing. It’s just a fact.”
The New York Times: ‘Butts: A Backstory’ Tells Us to Take Them Seriously
The Washington Post: Go ahead and giggle. ‘Butts’ is a serious look at women’s backsides.