No Cure for Being Human: And Other Truths I Need to Hear
by Kate Bowler
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The author addresses the common desire to think of life as a series of choices. She says that the truth of our lives, however, is mostly the stuff we can’t fix and the things that happen to us. In spite of the fact that life doesn’t always follow the good-better-best track of our plans, she says that life can still be beautiful. However, we must know that “life is a chronic condition” and that, as the title says, there’s no cure for being human.
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Although she is both a Christian and an historian of “prosperity gospel,” the author clarifies that her personal version of Christianity follows a different path and that she does not believe that simply having a positive attitude or living a certain way will bring health and wealth. She says courage would be unnecessary if life could be figured out so easily, shares some other thoughts she has had during her cancer journey, and emphasizes the importance of being in the moment.
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Author participates in online book launch via Zoom call
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The author describes the irritation and even rage that can be felt by people who have “persistent pain” in a culture that thinks there’s a solution for everything. An historian of “prosperity gospel,” which touts that living the right version of Christianity brings health and wealth, she makes the connection between the “faux secular” lifestyle influencers who promote attitude, diet, mindset or something else as health and wealth-bringers. Although she once thought of these as “American” attitudes, she admits that they are pervasive in her native Canada as well.
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